Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Giving Thanks 2009



The number one thing I'm thankful for is 25 years of marriage! We went out to eat and Christmas shop together. It's amazing how much we are part of each other and I'm humbled at how much he loves me. The reason for the picture above? When the kids were younger we had a Family Home Evening lesson on serving each other. In the story a little boy named Blaine decided to follow the Savior's example and be of service to others. He would leave little notes of SAJS (serve as Jesus served) around the house when he did something for someone else. For WEEKS I found little notes in empty dishwashers, on my made bed, in clean bathrooms... well, you get the picture. Sometimes months would go by but I'd still have a little SAJS note creep in somewhere. On the morning of my anniversary I woke up and Emily had made a gallon of my favorite Tropical Punch Crystal Light and, yes, there was an SAJS note on it. I still have the flannel board story if anyone wants to borrow it.



I have never been so grateful for my family. I can't imagine my life without my husband and children. While Steve and Chris had to go to work the day before Thanksgiving Allison, Emily and I went to work! I can't express enough the relief it was to have so much help in the kitchen. It was nice to have them home before Thanksgiving and able to help so much! We had a menu on the refrigerator and prioritized our time.



We assembled all the ingredients before we started and were diligent about cleaning and doing dishes as we went along. Later, as the men arrived home to the smell of fresh baked pie and rolls the kitchen was absolutely spotless. I mean no dishes anywhere! Swept floor! Clean counters! We were good! (frankly, I can't do it any other way without going insane!) The refrigerators were full of ready to go yams, green beans, dressing, cranberry relish,...



I made the crusts, Emily prepared the apples and pumpkin filling. Allison mixed the rolls and they even smelled yummy rising on the warm oven.



Emily couldn't resist taking pictures of our beautiful cooling pies.



No holiday dinner would be complete without my Mom's Butterhorn rolls. Allison was the mix master! My paranoia is in the forming of the rolls, but they turned out so beautifully! Only a few came undone. We especially like the "peeps" roll and the one that came totally undone and looked like a slice of pizza. The girls called dibs on those.

There were no complaints even as Alli handled the "icky, slimy" canned yams (no, I didn't take time to cook my own) and Em mixed in the brown sugar, etc. and fought the urge to "yak." We were exhausted but I've never appreciated them more. I think there was a great pride of ownership on their part the next day as we sat down to eat (with NO pictures, drat!).

Footnote: Hopefully no one will stick with the story this far but I have to add this one as the story has been leaked. No, the turkey wasn't done when we sat down to eat. I made a few really amateur mistakes (bleh!). It cooked a little longer, we ate everything else, and we still had enough to be sick of it four days later.

5 comments:

URFAVE 5+A Few said...

I love reading your posts! You are such an example to me in so so many ways. I love you and appreciate you more all the time, especially as my children get older. I just wish you all lived closer!

I am so impressed and proud of your sweet girls for being so helpful and so kind. I sure hope that my Brilynn follows in their footsteps. So far so good. She is very kind and very helpful now, I just hope the teenager years don't change her! I'm sure that your girls did have a huge sense of pride and what a great feeling that they can have to know that when they get married someday they will not be intimidated to cook a Thanksgiving dinner because they've already helped out so much that they'll know they can do it.

I'm glad that you had a great Thanksgiving even if you ate the turkey a little later on. Which was probably just as well because then you could really enjoy the turkey after your stomachs had a chance to settle a bit:)

Know how much I love you!
JoLynn

URFAVE 5+A Few said...

Oh yeah, What is the name of that cute little story. I know my kids are older but man if it made that big of an impression on your kids maybe it will still work on my kids:)

Marianne said...

Gosh! I wish you'd send Em and Al to me! But then, you have a kitchen big enough for an army! Mom and I barely fit in there together.Add Dee into the mix and we were dancing all around each other.. I cannot tell you how many times that day I selfishly wished for a larger kitchen. It won't happen any time soon. I am glad your Thanksgiving dinner was lovely. We enjoyed ours too. Michael was sufficiently impressed with my butter horns and frog-eyed salad. I found out that you have never put marshmallows in yours but he liked mine anyway!

Bless your sweet daughters! I love you!

Anonymous said...

Your Thanksgiving Feast looks wonderful but with so many chefs, how could it fail? I think the traditional Thanksgiving meal is so interesting...in almost all households the same dishes are served and yet there are so many variations, i.e., frog-eye salad with or without marshmallows? I'm glad you had a happy holiday in the kitchen with your daughters, such fun. I hope your Christmas season is just as happy.

URFAVE 5+A Few said...

Merry Christmas late, and Happy New Year early! I hope you guys are doing well! I sure miss you guys and love you!

Take Care,
JoLynn